When sexual intercourse is not satisfying or positive in the
perception of both sexual partners, then there is a problem that needs urgent
solution.
Divorce is so rampant these days and sometimes attributed to “irreconcilable difference”.
From my findings, 80% of that “irreconcilable difference”.is
caused by sexual problems (not being sexually compatible) and so on.
I am going to discuss about women sexual issues today and will
discuss that of men in my next writing.
Most women have
symptoms of a sexual problem at one time or another. For some women, the
symptoms are ongoing. But your symptoms are only a sexual problem if they
bother you or cause problems in your relationship.
These symptoms vary,
for what is causing sexual problem to lady A will be different to lady B. You
may also find that what is normal at one stage of your life changes at another
stage. For example, it's common for an exhausted mother of a baby to have
little interest in sex. And it's common for both women and men to have
lower sex drives as they age.
Female sexuality is complicated. At its core is a need for closeness
and intimacy. Women also have physical needs. When there is a problem in either
the emotional or physical part of your life, you can have sexual problems.
Some common problems include:
·
Emotional problems,
such as stress, relationship problems, depression or anxiety, a memory of
sexual abuse or rape, and unhappiness with your body. There is this cousin of mine
that the wife complains a lot whenever he has sexual intercourse with her. I
discovered that, the wife does not lubricate sufficiently before penetration
and this has caused emotional problem to them.
·
Having less desire for
sex. Your sexual
partner a high libido and you don’t have, it becomes a problem.
·
Having trouble feeling
aroused. I takes you so much time to feel arouse, it becomes a problem.
·
Having pain during
sex. As a result of insufficient lubrication, vaginal infection etc
You may notice a change in desire or sexual satisfaction. When
this happens, it helps to look at what is and isn't working in your body and in
your life. For example:
·
Are you ill, or do you
take a medicine that can lower your sexual desire or response?
·
Are you stressed or
often very tired?
·
Do you have a caring,
respectful connection with a partner?
·
Do you and your
partner have the time and privacy to relax together?
·
Do you have painful
memories about sex or intimacy?
Visit a counselor or a
medical doctor if you are not able to resolve the problem.
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