You have probably heard
that women can have clitoral or vaginal orgasms. You might have even read about
the debate within academia around whether vaginal orgasms even exist.
the experience of many women as well as the ancient science of Tantra all prove
that women can actually experience many different and distinct kinds of orgasms.
can differentiate orgasms by anatomy, the direction of the energy, the strength
and length of the orgasm, and by the orgasm’s effects on the physical,
energetic, emotional, mental and spiritual spheres.
are a few major erogenous zones in a woman’s body. Most women would enjoy the
stimulation of these erogenous zones, and it might lead to some kind of orgasm.
Some would actually experience a distinctively different orgasm at each area.
you are just starting out, don’t worry about which is which. Just experiment
with the following areas of arousal, and see what works for you.
attempting any of these techniques, first get yourself “in the mood”: Take a
hot bath, put on some sensual music, light candles and incense, and allow your
partner touch you all over your body in a way that excites and arouses you.
Don’t “try” to have an orgasm. Instead: Explore. Play. Discover. Try.
Experiment ... Have fun!
are the 8 different female anatomy orgasms and how to reach them:
nipples are an important erogenous zone. They are connected via energy channels
to the clitoris, and thus, stimulation of the breasts will cause an arousal of
the clitoris and the whole genital area.
stimulation of the breasts and nipples can result in an actual orgasm or can
bring about more quickly and easily the onset of an orgasm when vaginal
stimulation is applied.
with small breasts tend to be more sensitive, but all women can develop
sensitivity in their breasts, regardless of size. If your breasts are not
sensitive, give yourself regular breast massage and/or ask your partner to do
so, at least 20 minutes a day.
How to have a nipple
orgasm:Use fingers, a vibrator
or your partners mouth to stimulate your nipples. Touch, rub, pinch, pull,
kneed, and twist your nipples to explore different sensations. Your partner can
lick, suck, and bite them. Try to do this for 20 to 30 minutes, even when they
feel a bit sensitive or if the sensation has “plateaued.”
clitoral orgasm is what most women know to be “an orgasm” — intense clitoral
stimulation leading to a short peak of orgasm that lasts 20 to 30 seconds,
focused mainly in the genital area, and feels intense, sharp, but a bit shallow
compared to vaginal orgasms.
pleasure declines rapidly, the clit might feel hyper-sensitive and even a bit
painful, and some women lose their interest and passion for a few minutes or
even hours. Even with penetrative sex there are positions that stimulate the
clitoris more than others. For example if either partner is on top and leaning
clitoral orgasm isn’t “bad.” It just doesn’t serve you and charge you like deep
vaginal orgasms do.
order to discover the ecstasy and bliss of continuous internal orgasms, you can
try avoiding having a clitoral orgasm for a while. However, after you learn how
to turn clitoral stimulation into internal orgasms, it’s great to have clitoral
stimulation, as long as you can avoid having an explosive clitoral orgasm.
How to have a clitoral
orgasm:Apply direct and
indirect stimulation of the clitoris using the fingers, a shower-head, a
vibrator or your partner’s mouth. Note that some women love direct and intense
stimulation of their clit, while others can only have indirect stimulation
through the clitoral hood or sideways through the lips. Experiment with doing
the same motion repeatedly for a while or with changing and alternating your
Vaginal entrance orgasm
are many nerves at the entrance to the vagina, making it a sensitive and
erogenous zone. Apart from clitoral orgasm, this is where most women experience
pleasure and subsequent orgasm. But compared with the inner areas, the vaginal
entrance orgasm is shallower and sharp, similar to a clitoral orgasm, and might
also become explosive.
a man is penetrating shallowly, at the area of your vaginal entrance, it feels
very pleasurable on a physical level, but when he enters deeper, the experience
of the pleasure becomes deeper, more expansive and meaningful. Size does
matter, and so does depth.
How to have a vaginal
entrance orgasm:Using your fingers, a
dildo or your partner’s penis, touch the ring of muscles and tissue at the
entrance to your vagina. Use in-and-out movements, circular movements, and
apply pressure and stimulation “outward.”
G-spot was originally called the Grafenberg spot after the scientist who
“discovered” it. The G-spot is actually not exactly a spot but an area located
just inside the vagina, near the entrance, on the upper wall under the pubic
bone. When the index and middle fingers are inserted into the vagina and curled
or hooked towards the clit, it will be discovered that this area feels
different than the vaginal walls. It’s like a ridged, soft, fleshy hill that
feels like a combination between a hard tongue, and a soft palate. It will be
much more engorged and swollen when the woman si aroused.
women’s G-spot is located closer to the entrance, while others have their
G-spot further back. All women have a G-spot. A G-spot orgasm feels like an
overwhelming experience of intense pleasure, not as “sharp” as a clitoral
orgasm, but rather more, “round,” “expansive,” and “expanded.”
takes longer to reach a G-post orgasm; it unfolds slower, lasts longer, and the
pleasure decreases gradually and slowly, compared to the clit orgasm which
usually crashes after the peak.
G-spot orgasm will be more emotionally intense, overwhelming, and meaningful
and will be followed by a deep feeling of satisfaction and relaxation. There
will be strong contractions of the whole pelvic floor, pc muscles and vaginal
continued stimulation, you could experience more G-spot orgasms, leading to an
experience of multiple-orgasms or an intense orgasmic state, lasting for long
minutes or even hours. Sometimes there might be an expelling of fluids from the
vagina or the urethra, also known as female ejaculation.
How to have a G-spot
orgasm:Using the fingers, or
better yet, a non-vibrating dildo, stimulate the area mentioned above — 1 to 2
inches inside the vagina on the upper wall, kind of below the clit. Make sure
the woman is wet or use plenty of natural lube.
might need to keep going for 20 or 30 minutes as this orgasm takes time, but
it’s so worth it!
a clitoral stimulation is more technical — rub intensely for long enough and
she’ll cum — a G-spot orgasm requires that elusive mind-state known as