Most men across the globe had at a
time or the other worried while some still worry about the fact that their
instruments in smaller than they should be and as such, won’t satisfy their
lovers. The truth, based on research, however, suggests that most men
underestimate the size of their pride in that regards.
Men, whether they choose to agree or
otherwise, always place great premium on ‘their’ size, as many cultures
associate the ‘man’s size with masculinity. It has come to symbolise qualities
of virility, fertility, strength, ability and courage, leaving those who feel
smaller with feelings of inadequacy. That is exactly what triggers the extreme
measures some men take or try to engage in, in order to increase ‘their’ size.
With the aid of companies around the world, which have exploited this anxiety,
selling pills, penis boosters, enlargement products and extenders, which
promise men to increase the length and girth of their manhood fast now take
front shelves. Concern about size or feeling inadequate is a perception issue
and if not addressed, fast and well too, it can really damage or totally erode
a man’s self confidence, thereby affecting his social life. It can start from
the trivialised ,but important issues like being unable to use urinals or
shared shower/bathrooms when in hostels as students, to completely avoiding
intimate relationships. This is the crux of the matter and, therefore, calls
for concern, education and enlightenment.
Measuring your instrument
Most men’s opinion about their penis
was formed during childhood, because while growing up, they either saw that of
an older brother, friend and mentally did a comparison with theirs.
That alongside taunts from other
people during adolescence or following remarks from his sexual partner, bred
fear and anxiety.
However, men often have a wrong
perception of their penis, says sexual health expert, Dr David Delving, who
said “when you look down at your own organ, it seems shorter than it really is
and in contrast, when you glance around at showers, you get sideways view of
other guys’ own. So, they usually look or seem longer than yours.’’
To really see your organ as others
would, look at yourself undressed in front of a full-length mirror. The organ
looks longer and larger than when viewed from above.
To get precise measurement, get a
ruler or a tape, and take measurement when you have an erection. Take the
measurement from base of the penis on the side nearer to the tummy up to the
tip where the hole is.
There are no average length figures
for a teenager because individuals grow at different rates, but a penis doesn’t
stop growing until the age of 21. For an adult, an average penis size is about
14-16cm (5.5 – 6.3 inches) when erect, and its girth is between 12 – 13 cm (4.7
– 5.1 inches).
An organ would be considered
unusually small if it is less than 3 inches (7.6cm) long when erect. And at this
point, it is worth noting too that there is large variation in the angle of an
erect organ. Some erect penises point straight up, others straight down. Some
have a slight bend to the left or right. The bottom line is, there is no right
shape, so whichever direction yours take gives no cause for alarm, but if you
notice a more significant bend in you that causes pain or difficulty during
sex, then you have to see doctor.
What women think or want
It is expedient to state that the
issue of attractiveness to women is complex. However, researches suggest that
penis size is much lower down on the list of priorities for women than such
issues as man’s personality and grooming.
According to Professor Wylie, “it
may come as surprise to some men, but most women have very little interest in
‘their’ size and that has been shown in numerous strides that when it comes to
sex, women are much more interested in whether you are romantic, tender,
sensitive to their sexual needs rather than in your organ’s size.
Men, therefore, should keep
their calm, be rest assured and work at bringing out the best in their
women in bed, rather than focusing on whether or not their size is big to
enough satisfy their women.
Source: tribuneonlineng
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